All Souls Night

It’s an eerie sight; which is why we went. “Let’s hurry Daddy,” Martha urged, “it will soon be dark.” I parked the car along the narrow road as groups of somber people made their way to the cemetery entrance. Outside the gate, hawkers were selling everything from food and drinks to candles and rosary beads.

As the day turned to dusk, a cool misty rain added to the surreal haunting glow of candlelight that emanated from behind darkened walls. Martha and I squeezed through the crowded entrance, then followed the well-worn, muddy path that took us deeper into the aged cemetery.

It’s November 1, All Souls Day, in the Philippines. Their religious tradition teaches them that on this night, the souls of their departed loved ones return to their homes on earth. Food is often placed at the grave sight so that the spirit will not go hungry. Catholic teachings say that special prayers can be said for the deceased that will give them temporary relief from their sufferings in purgatory.

Due to space limitations and swampy tropical land, the concrete tombs are placed above ground, ‘apartment’ style, with up to 4 or 5 rows stacked on top of each other. Each tomb is faced with a tiny ledge to hold flowers and candles. The more wealthy can afford larger, more exclusive tombs, that are often topped with marble statues of angels and saints. An iron gate may protect a tiny yard where mourners can come and pray.

But on this night, nearly every Filipino in the county is honoring the memory of a relative or friend. As thousands of candles, flowers, and gifts are placed in front of the tombs, smiles and tears can be seen while stories and prayers are spoken in behalf of the departed. And the mist continues to fall.

After taking several pictures and observing the unique cultural customs of this night, Martha and I make our way back home, thinking how delightfully different it is when you know your loved one is alive and well in the eternal light of heaven. There’s no somberness there, only bright joy and everlasting peace as we enjoy the rewards our Father has gladly given. What a day of rejoicing that will be!